ARE YOU REALLY IN LOVE?
Youâ€™ve been dating this person for a while, or itâ€™s only new but you want to convince yourself that what you feel is really love. Just a form of guarantee that you have something strong enough to build a relationship on or something strong enough for a bigger step. Check each of these points if they are present
Gratitude: The thought of this person comes with gratitude from your heart. You are often thankful for having them in your life.
Comfort: When youâ€™re with her or him is when you are best comfortable. You could spend the entire day with them even if you both say nothing. There is a peace of mind that comes with the thought and presence of this person and you donâ€™t even mind being a spoilt brat when youâ€™re with them.
The thought of hurting them, hurts you: You canâ€™t stand seeing them hurt and the thought of doing or saying that thing that will hurt them, breaks your own heart.
You always want to show them off
Prayer: You find yourself praying for this person, you want them to always be happy thereby pushing you to talk about them with the supreme God as you canâ€™t do everything for this your partner but well, you can beg God to keep them for you.
LOVE is a beautiful feeling. The above signs shouldnâ€™t only be present in the beginning of your relationship, so if you no longer feel comfortable around your spouse and you donâ€™t trust them enough to close your eyes to sleep while youâ€™re with them, then you need to take a chill pill and ask yourself where things went wrong. Fix things if you can as love doesnâ€™t give up quickly.
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